*Message from Tiff

Another morning of early rising. So I'll share...

When my eyes popped open at 2:50 am, I was caught in the "IN BETWEEN " feeling the DEEP realization I have been here in this body for 52 years and I'm so grateful to be alive. My God what a road it has been.

Over the last couple of years I have really turned inward and come home to myself. Boy it feels good!

Who knew I would be my own greatest love.

Don't get me wrong - I'm madly and wildly In love with my twin flame, Jack. He truly is my perfect match.

What I have come to understand is this - for me to really show up and live in the passion I have with this incredible man, I FIRST have to be in love with myself!

This is no joke.

I have spent my life loving and giving to others. Why? It feels very natural for me - and I'm an Empath - it goes with the job.

I spent so much time helping and healing that I forgot about my own needs (typical Empath story).

I decided to change my narrative. I was sick-and-tired of being Sick and Tired.

I just wanted to be Wild and Free!

I wanted to be my free flowing sensual self.

There comes a time in every life where you have to decide what kind of experience you want. Are you going to do what you have always done or are you going embrace your possibility and change?

I used to think that putting myself last was noble. 

What the hell was I thinking?

Why did I think that I could keep giving when my batteries were dead?

I was conditioned to lose my self in service so I could find myself. Well, I found myself in bed sick and sad!

Now I take the time I need to enjoy my life. I nourish mind, body and spirit by putting myself first so I can show up in the love and the passion that I am.

Putting yourself first does not mean you aren't helping others. It means you are making sure you have enough fuel to do what you choose to do.

No one is going to give us our Bliss. We must create it for ourselves, and then, and only then, can we truly THRIVE.

I'm finally the daughter, wife, mother/grandmother, career woman, friend and Wild Mystic Goddess I always knew I could be.

And damn - life is good!

Much love to you.

Mama Tiff
Teacher/Channel/Healer